As i get older, i realize a lot of things. i realize that as a kid, i worried too much about what people thought of me. Some impressions however, are important, and have lasted a lifetime. For better or worse, they last.
i have also realized that parenting is not for the faint of heart. When i became a father, my whole world-view was altered tremendously. Yet one more mouth to feed. One more life that i am responsible for. Everyday. This little girl will be molded more by my wife and i than anyone, or anything else. Sobering to say the least. Forever is the word that comes to mind.
i lost my dad to cancer just 11 days after i was married. i miss him more than i can describe, and wish he was here to tell me how to be a dad. but he’s not. This is not a pity party. It is to prove a point.
Every man needs his father. i don’t care how old i get, i will forever long for the knowledge, wisdom and comfort that fathers provide. i will always want for the interpersonal relationship that children and fathers have. i have that now on the father end. And, i have that with my father in heaven. So, kids and adults: honor your mother and father this week. Fulfill the longing in your heart to love and to be loved by your parents.
Fathers: man up. Be the example in your child’s life. If you don’t know how, get help from your dad. And, help is in the bible. The ultimate example of fatherhood.
Always remember: We are not promised tomorrow.
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Great thoughts Rob! My dad went to glory ten months before Eden was born, so I’ll have to teach her about him through vids, pics and stories. It’s good to know that I’m not the only one that struggles with fatherhood and wishes I had my dad for advice. Thanks for your honesty and vulnerability, it’s something I’ve always admired and respected you for. Can’t wait to see you play!